You can think of me as a behavior consultant, who consults about family narcissistic abuse. Whatever you think, don’t idealize me or put me on a pedestal. I’m attuned to the annihilating energies and spiritual abuse that often accompany narcissistic abuse in families. (When I say spiritual, I don’t mean religious. I mean having to do with the soul.)

I am NOT a licensed mental health provider. This is NOT therapy, I do not help with mental health or function. I do not help with physical or sexual harm. I am not a caregiver. I might be more like a no-nonsense, village sage-hermit.

I use words like “energy vampire” and “evil,” which licensed therapists tend not to utiIize. I think people have what they need within, and also that sometimes guidance helps. I offer insight and wisdom into the intangible yet very real harm of narcissistic abuse, which tends to get gaslit elsewhere, in my opinion.

I call myself a healer because I’ve done a lot of healing work myself. I don’t have all the answers—no one does. I do not propose or suggest that I heal anyone else. I ask clients questions and offer insights from my own experiences in order to help them gain clarity and strength. Some tools that may come into the picture with consent include writing, meditation, and self-discovery exercises. For some of my education and background, visit my “about” page.